So often I hear people say that they want to be in love and yet they have not learned to love themselves. I hear them talk about past relationships with resentment and anger and think that they can attract someone to love who will be different while holding those feelings. When we do not forgive ourselves and others, we keep those patterns in a loop and keep attracting the same people over and over…. Different names, different bodies, yet the same relationship.
Each relationship is an opportunity to learn more about ourselves as long as we are willing to dig deeper and look at the blessings and the lessons that we have learned.
Also, the more we love ourselves and the happier we are, the stronger is the vibration that a happy, loving person attracts a happy, loving person and an easier and more fun relationship.