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So often I hear people say that they want to be in love and yet they have not learned to love themselves.  I hear them talk about past relationships with resentment and anger and think that they can attract someone to love who will be different while holding those feelings. Read More

Would you like to free yourself from the repeating patterns that have appeared throughout your life in your relationships to others ?  They are the ones that you usually say, “people are…………., men are…………………, women are…………………..”  (fill in the blanks).  Relationships of any kind can serve as the greatest teacher for us to learn Read More

What is this thing called love?  This crazy thing called love.  These are the words from an old song, yet most of us are still asking that question.  I have noticed that in the movies, the characters usually “fall in love” within one week.   Often I hear people say that after a Read More

Are the stories you are telling yourself keeping you in the present, inspiring you and moving you toward your dreams or taking you in the opposite direction? When I think about staying in the present, I am reminded of the ancient fable that you might have heard and is worth hearing again. Read More

This is an excerpt from the book I am co-authoring called The Power To Change. We humans are the only living creatures we know of who have been given the gift of being able to deliberately and consciously create what we want and change who we are and how we live our lives. Read More

One of the most important books that I read when I was new to this spiritual path and personal growth was “Psychocybernetics” by Maxwell Maltz.  In it he explained that we all have many self-image pictures of ourselves, some changing and some stay the same.  These self image pictures control Read More

Often when people want prosperity in their lives they will say “I am debt free.”  This sentence has the word “debt” in it which brings up an image of debt in your subconscious mind and can create a vibration and feeling of debt.  A more effective and FutureSpeaking way of Read More

What are you pretending not to know?   What dream do you  really want to happen yet keep telling yourself you are really not clear about what you want?  What if five years, or even one more year goes by and you are still not living your dream or at least Read More

Have you made up your mind to be, do, or have what you want? Wanting something and really making up your mind to create it are two different things. Making up your mind that you will be, do, or have what you want brings with it an intention that is Read More

 I have had an experience of this first hand that was life changing on many levels.  When I discovered the power of words and the tools I teach (FutureSpeaking: Language That Shapes Destiny), I heard myself say many times “I am not an artist, I can’t even draw a good stick Read More